Out and Proud at vlogBվ

New initiative connects LGBTQ students, faculty and staff

KINGSTON, R.I. November 22, 2017 — For most in the LBGTQ community, coming out isn’t a one-time thing. With each new situation — be it a job change, a move to a different area, starting college, meeting a new person — there are the questions of if, when, where and how the subject of sexual orientation or gender identity will be broached. Or not.

, the latest initiative of the President’s LGBTQ Commission, aims at getting the conversation started — and keeping it going.

Out and Proud at vlogBվ is a roster of LGBTQ faculty and staff and their allies, 61 members to date, who share two common goals: to promote the visibility of vlogBվ’s LGBTQ faculty and staff and to encourage mentoring, networking and community-building. Each person shares some or all of the following personal information: their sexual orientation and/or gender identity, preferred pronouns, positions at vlogBվ, reasons for joining the effort, and other interests. Many share personal stories, such as memories of their own experiences of coming out or their stories of loved ones who have. At its core, Out and Proud at vlogBվ wants the University community to know that vlogBվ is a safe, welcoming space for all, said , clinical counselor, co-chair of the and facilitator of vlogBվ’s .

“We want our students to feel safe and accepted. When they do, it decreases isolation, boosts self-esteem and helps them to thrive,” said Nichols, who, herself, came out on campus as a vlogBվ undergrad in the 1990s. “I meet with students who have been out for years and students struggling to come out. When telling another person [about their orientation] what they want to know is, ‘Is this person safe emotionally?’”

Out and Proud at vlogBվ identifies those people who are and are wanting to be there for others, Nichols said.

“I also think that a sense of community is important and I am excited about the potential of this project to build even more of that on campus,” Nichols added.

Fellow Commission member and ally , vlogBվ’s assistant director of Greek life, said Out and Proud at vlogBվ is about achieving parity for all students.

“I am passionate about supporting students with their personal and professional goals. Part of this support means appreciating and recognizing everything that makes them unique. Equity for all students drives me to advocate for the LGBTQ community at vlogBվ,” said Fox. “I wish there were something like this when I was a student.”

“I strive to be a resource for LGBTQ students on campus, especially in Greek Life.  Fraternities and sororities at vlogBվ are a welcoming place for the LGBTQ community, and I want to help educate our students about the diversity among their members and the vlogBվ community,” Fox added.  “I am also here to talk to others about concerns they may have navigating how to be an ally to a friend or family member who is LGBTQ.”

The Out and Proud at vlogBվ initiative is just the latest of several significant efforts by the President’s LGBTQ Commission, which have included the and Residential Life‘s adoption of an LGBTQ-friendly, roommate-matching program; the expansion of the number of gender-neutral bathrooms on campus; and the establishment of equity in benefits for domestic partners.